Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Family - my favourite people


I am missing home so terribly. The minute I kissed my parents and siblings good-bye, a little piece of me goes missing. A void that I find it hard to replace. None of my usual favourite things - magazines, shoes, books, even my husband or Koe (my dog) can help me. I can only reassure myself that I will get over it after a while, when I start to get back into the groove of my Melbourne life. And yet, I dont really want it to go away.

Mama, papa, Wai Yee, Baby Jayden, Teoh, Su Fen, Meng kit, Emily & Lai Heang - I miss all of you so bad. I love you and am thinking of you.

My life is always with you xxxooo

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

My roots in Singapore

Made a detour from my home trip and came down to Singapore for 2 days. Nothing much has changed since I left 2 years ago which is the way I like it. Everything runs smoothly - public transportation, services, etc.

Yesterday I had a pampering day with my good friend. We started with lunch at Raffles City Shopping Centre (so much to choose from). There I witness something that is so inherent of Singapore life - queuing up for freebies, even though Spore life is living life on a fast pace lane, the locals still find time to queue for a good whole hour to get a freebie like a cone of Ben & Jerry ice-cream. Thankfully the profile of freebie hungry people are mainly teenagers or senior citizens.

After a sumptuous lunch of roast duck & chinese soup, Amy brought me for a haircut at Bugis. Haircuts here or in Malaysia are so cheap and they are so good churning out hairstyles that takes years away from you. Now I look like one of the Hong Kong girls, a trendsetter, hopefully my clothes isn't going to give me away, they aren't really trendy, just functional!!

Then if that's not enough pampering, we went for a full body massage at the Traditional Massage at the Javanese Hut on River Valley Road. In between all these places, we zipped in and out of public transportation of train and taxi smoothly without any glitches which is really what I love about Singapore.

I am so glad to catch up with Amy, we are both at similar stage of our lives. It helps to know I am not alone and my smart friend never takes any problems in life lying down. She is a fighter and witty. So I was absorbing all the knowledge and learnings she was willing to impart. Hopefully both of us will be on our on way to victory!!

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

A world of difference - Malaysia Truly Asia

I have been back in KL for 3 days and really noticing the differences between Melbourne and my hometown. Been away for so long I had almost forgot how it was like at home.

It is so so so humid now, if I can bathe every couple of hours I would. After a clean fresh shower, within hours, my skin feels sticky and my face feels oily. It's pretty much the same thing in the evenings. No wonder air conditioners are indispensable machines. Cant live without them like in Melbourne.

There is so many people around everywhere and people responsible for every kind of job, however menial - at the airport, there was one person to pull out the bags & luggages coming onto the conveyor belt then there was another person dressed in purple uniform with VIP embroidered on his uniform helping a perfectly capable young woman to wait for her luggage so he could pick it, place it on a trolley (which is free of charge compared to Melbourne) and wheel it to the taxi stand.

This is the land of flaunters - I didnt thinking for once a man wearing white leather shoes had any sense of style, this man with his other half were probably half my age had branded leather luggage and were business class passengers. When my best friend took me out for a foot massage over the weekend, I found there were special malls built for high end shopping, cafes in them serves the typical hawker food but is waitered upon, with immaculate decor of chandeliers, chairs & decor coming straight out from designer mags. The retail brands were London, European designer wear. The night markets had cheaper copies of everything - music CDs, movie DVDs, branded Louis Vuitton, Tous, Gucci handbags, shoes, clothing to satisfy anyone who wants an ego boost after wearing branded goods even if they were fake. I wasnt the exception, I had purchased 5 pairs of shoes because they were so cheap, I could wear them several times and threw them away. This isnt a developing world, this is stinking rich country.

And on the other end, I hear stories of petty crimes, international and local companies alike with employees right up to the senior level involved with fraudalent activities siphoning money out for one's own benefit, discrimination against skin colour at work and home estate residents in order to protect their loved ones & property set up voluntary night watch and taking the law into their own hands when a thief is caught in action is beaten to near death & the police walks away for a while whilst that's happening in front of him. My relative's car was parked right in front of my mother's home in a street full of cars, some double parked because of lack of space and yet, some thief is alert enough to see the car is unlocked and steals the coins left in the car and the toll register machine.

I love this country because of my memories in my family, school, work & friends but it needs a lot of help. It needs a restructuring of the appaling quality of education, the congested transport system that never seemed to go away even after efforts like the super/highways. Most of all, it requires a change in thinking that all of us are living in the same home country and unless we treat each other with respect and dignity, and not out to gain an edge over the other - it is not a place to call home.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Swimming with the dolphins

I am here in the Bay of Islands, North Island in New Zealand. We took a full day cruise called The Cream Trip. It's the best trip to get a overall history and taster of the islands here.

Everything here is a feast to the eyes, green lush grass, rolling hills, even the sheep here looks happy. The boat took us from one island to the other, and it is still delivering mail to several of the island over the last century, even with the existence of roads now.

The most amazing thing on the trip is swimming with the dolphins, the water was cold and choppy, it always is with cloudy weather but I cant miss the chance. So I paid $30, and jumped into this big net with fellow dolphin swimmers and the boat went chasing for the dolphins. It was easy to find them, and there were at least 6 of them easy to spot from the boat. When the crew asked us to jump in and shouted "Quick, go after them." It was like a mad rush, the humans keep swimming into each other. Well they were the ones who asked us to look into the water with our snorkels. How are we to spot the dolphins looking down into dark blue sea? And the open ocean and the thought of getting the waves sweeping me away had me hyperventilating. Alas, the dolphins were only metres away but nearly close enough to touch and swim next too. But they were beautiful creatures, greyish black smooth shiny skin and there was a 3 month old baby too. Baby dolphins do not leave their mother until 3 years old coz they are mammals. I will post my photos or video later. Alex got me gasping for breath on the human net as the boat went chasing for the dolphins. Drank lots of sea water but all well worth it.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

April's month focus





I have almost the whole month off. Yay!!
Kicking off the celebration month is our trip to North Island, New Zealand. We are approved for our permanent resident visa and leaving to Auckland for the visa evidencing. It's confusing isnt it? Leaving the country to be certified as an Australian Permanent Resident and returning as a legal resident of OZ land. We are thrilled and I feel honoured to introduce New Zealand, my most loved country to my husband.

We should have enough time to explore North Island. Will leave the best part South Island for another trip...

Then I go back to home sweet home to say hello to my new nephew. Soak in mom and dad's pampering, graze all my favourite food and catch with lifelong friends in KL and Singapore.

Here are some photos of my NZ trip during my Contiki tour. Photos which I kept in handy so I can remind myself of the good times I had.

With these photos, are photos of awesome friends I have in my lifetime.